The tube is what's worn the thread down in my boots, the twenty minute walk on pavement bubbled and cracked by trees' roots. "Sheperd's Hill"-- and I wonder if sheep lived here before me, the sheep I yearn to see here, in pastures, but not in the heart of a London strewn with bits of napkins and newspapers, five blocks' walk to a rubbish bin. Five blocks of feeling ridiculous, holding a hollow coffee sleeve in your hand, five blocks of looking at your grip and wondering if maybe half a sip is still left; sucking at air. No one hears the vacuum but you, me.
The waitstaff in cafes, restaurants, are at first puzzled then pleased at the American accent: a latte comes with three complimentary cookies on the side; a second plate of complimentary chips with that sandwich. It's because you're a nice American, a Brit tells you, a not-obese-and-rude American. Against the grain, you are. Smile back, say thank you for the vote of confidence. "Excess generosity," the American-style tipping is called. No more than ten percent at the most, and even then-- usually it's included. You are left with the options of feeling a) like a miser or b) like a performative yuppie. If given extra free food, choose b.
Do not smile at people who are not waitstaff; they do not appreciate it, you will not get an extra cookie or tart. If you open your mouth to say something with your American tongue, it is less offensive. Even though your "a" 's sound hard to you, and your mouth is a wide tunnel, gaping, those sounds are white flags waving. You are one sturdy olive branch of ignorance.